I’m in New York at the moment for the second leg of my American Grand Tour (For lack of a better name), but last week I was in New Jersey for the “10 for 10” event with SFM and DEA. 

This was an exclusive event at Jay Kubassek’s house (The cofounder of SFM and the other half of Stuart & Jay), and only a small handful of people worldwide were invited to partake. 

I’m very grateful to have been one of them.

The picture above is me and some of the absolute legends that I had the pleasure of spending 5 days with.

Being able to attend this event came as a result of a commitment 10 months ago, to go into building a new life for myself with the attitude of “Whatever it takes”. 

The only way to make RADICAL change in your life, is to commit to overcoming ANY obstacle in front of you and doing whatever needs to be done to get there.

Need to raise capital? Fine, let’s do it. Need to learn new skills? No problem. Need to work late into the night at first to get things kicked off around a full time job? Sure, whatever it takes. 

If you can come into something with that attitude, whether it takes 6 months or 24 months, you WILL make it if you refuse to give up no matter what. 


That’s where most people fail

They say they want it, but it’s conditional on things not being too hard. When they get too hard, most people give up. 

You have to be OK with accepting that things may get overwhelming, things may get uncomfortable, and things may get really difficult. 

But if you keep working through it, those times will pass. And then you find something better. 



Surrounding yourself with the right mentors who can give you the right education is absolutely key. They’ll help you stay pointed in the right direction, they’ll help you work through the tough times, and they’ll give you the education and resources that you need to truly be successful. 

But beyond all that, the single most important thing is committing to yourself that you’re in this no matter what it takes.

Nobody can do it “for” us. Even the best golf pro in the world couldn’t make you a professional golfer if you don’t take ownership of your own path to success. All they’d do is give you the right tools to help you succeed the fastest in the most effective way. But only you can make it happen. 


It’s down to you

That’s what SFM helped me to do. So if you want to find out if this is for you as well, then take ownership of your own destiny and submit an application for $29.95. This will give you access to the entire of module 1 and will let you speak to your SFM consultant first hand to help you with your business goals.

You get a 30 day money back guarantee so if it’s not for you then you can cancel it and get your money back. That way you’ll be giving yourself a strong foundation on what’s involved before you decide whether it’s for you or not. 

Just go to www.scrapthe9to5.com/how-to-get-started to submit your application.

Also once you’ve submitted your application you can join my private member’s Facebook Group so that you can see exactly what other new SFM members are up to and the kind of challenges they’re facing.

That should immediately help alleviate any skepticism if you’re interested in doing this for yourself. 

Have an awesome week,